hello, again, lovelies.
it’s high time i blogged again. while i wish the last month was all about resting, relaxing and taking a digital break, it was more like a super busy one where i knew i couldn’t manage it all and something had to give – and that, for me, was blogging.
we road tripped (14 hours w/ 4 kids) to visit family in atlanta and then the mr. lovely and i caught a plane to colorado for a few days. after returning i had a 2 day photo shoot for original women and, yesterday, a photo shoot (a peek here) with style me pretty living (which i had been working on for the past month – little updates and such). and, there you have it. it sounds compact typed out, but all encompassing is more like it.
through all of this, i’ve been thinking about time. the time in each day. how we break it up, what we spend it on, and better ways to manage it. i’ve noticed where i waste and where i want more of it. i’ve been asking people about their, habits, their hours and their “how do you get it all dones.”
the conclusion i’m coming to is that it’s different for everyone (also, doing it all doesn’t exist). yes, there are common habits that thread through the lives of all successful people. they are patterns you have to pick up on. however, how they implement them may vary. then, there are the the factors to the fractions of our hours and days. this ignorant saying that dances around the interwebs that says “you have the same amount of hours in a day as beyonce,” is really just that, ignorant. yes, beyonce may have the same amount of hours in a day, but she has all the help she could want at her disposal. but, really who wants to compare at all…because who knows the load that beyonce carries? maybe she has all the help in the world, but feels emotional lack of some sorts. you’ll always come up short, when you compare (short on self worth, short on success and even short on hours).
while comparing is a waste of time, observing others is time well spent. listening and learning from others about their habits is how you fill your hands with tools to try in your hours.
summer is not proving to be as restful as i had hoped. anyone else? kids sleeping in a bit and sneaking in some time to read, study and have some quiet time in the morning is glorious, but after that it is straight up crazytown. and, it seems our schedule feels that way too. it’s interesting because i’m learning a lot about rest from a spiritual persecutive, but it seems like things are getting busier in the everyday kind of way. i’m really trying to process it all. i suppose i’m trying to come to a conclusion or three or two. yet, i’m learning that conclusions don’t always equal change. so maybe i shouldn’t be entirely focued on them, anyways.
what i am trying to focus on is living in moments. if you follow me on instagram you may have seen my post on living in the moments. i’m tyring to focus my eyes and open my heart to the beauty that is only in this particular time – never to be repeated the same way twice. if we plan to live in our moments than it is not a conclusion or even a decision to do so, it is a practice. when we live outside of the moment, we are just trading today’s strength (needed for today) for tomorrow’s possible problems and eventualities.
i’m practicing. because, probably like many of you, i’m a crazy multi tasker who can’t turn her brain off. i practice. i fail. i practice again. that is why i’m calling it practicing. not even a try.
i’m taking a few weeks off to practice this practice of living in the moments. we have two trips coming up and i want to enjoy them, fully. and, i have 3 pretty big projects in july that require a lot of attention to detail. i’ll pop in and post when i can and i’m certain i’ll have so many things i’ll want to share because usually when i’m not looking for inspiration, that is when i find it – always.
but, lets stay in touch and keep our conversations going on instagram, twitter and pinterest!
i want to leave you with these links, because wouldn’t you know that as i’ve been mulling on this moment by moment way, there were quite a few posts, jus in the last week, that found me…and i think they are still finding others – like some of you….. i think you’ll enjoy them, find yourself in them, and think yourself through them. if you are trying to juggle it all, multi-task everything, trying hard to focus, carrying a heavy load today and worrying about tomorrow, then these will do you good.
01 / erin’s letter to her daughter on balance and “that kind of moms.”
02 / anne’s wise words on how to focus in an age of distraction.
03 / the everygirl on embracing rest in a culture of busy.
04 / clementine daily’s practical pointers on how to stop multitasking (and why we should).
05 / lean in, recline, or just stand tall and forget about who cares how many hours beyonce has in a day (ha).
go forth and rest lovelies. give yourself permission to take a break. to not do it all…and enjoy what it is your are doing…moment by moment.
let’s talk books. it’s been awhile (last post here). i’ve always got a book or two or four going, so i thought it would be a good time to catch up. and after all, summer is the best for reading. don’t you think? while i’m sharing what i’ve read recently / am reading. i’d love to hear what you’ve been reading and whats on your list.
sf girl by bay’s coffee cart + coffee carts in general.
this kind of outfit.
fish tacos. this would be a real problem for me if i lived in california.
this make more adventures banner, which you can D I Y.
this writing shed in london. a writing shed. in london. sigh.
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what are you loving this week?
it’s no secret that i’m a fashionABLE super fan. i love their scarves (i never go far without one) + i love their mission (to create sustainable business for africans so they are not dependent on charity, but instead earn the dignity of a job). and, today there is even more love going around because fashionABLE has just added a new product – a blanket!
the mehari blanket is so gorgeous! it’s great for both indoor and outdoor use. think cozying up on the couch with a good book and warm cup of tea or a summer picnic in the park (or beach, if you are so lucky). i’m using mine draped over my bed.
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click, through to see how else i’m using my blanket :